I'm tired of pretending. I don't want to be fake or a burden or anything other than who I am and how I feel, but that's hard. It shouldn't be. We all know those inspirational quotes about just being yourself and you're enough just as you are. Be authentic. Be kind to yourself. Blah, blah,… Continue reading Is pretending a part of your life?
Living in the Light (24)
In early January, 2024, I attended the visitation and said goodbye to my sweet friend Jan. Her passing was a melancholy way to bring in the new year. I was grateful that I knew her for the few short years that I did. She was seventy-nine, just shy of her eightieth birthday, and though she… Continue reading Living in the Light (24)
Being a non-mother
Let's talk about children. Let's talk about motherhood. I'm sure some of you who are reading this are mothers and some aren't. Some have borne children while others are stepmothers, foster mothers, godmothers or something like a mother. But what if you aren't a mother at all? What if you never carried a child in… Continue reading Being a non-mother
So here’s the thing…
So here's the thing. We all have problems. We all have health issues. And the older we get, the more we have. That's life. I don't hate life because of it. I don't hate my body for its problems and I don't hate myself for not taking better care of my body and mind in… Continue reading So here’s the thing…
All I can write
I was hoping I could mention the amazing writing I've been doing lately. Emotional poetry, journal entries, the beginnings of new stories. But it seems all I can write are letters and cards to my friends. However, I've been thinking a lot. There's so much going around in my mind, that I'm having a hard… Continue reading All I can write
This thing called life
It's true what people say--one day you're living your life and doing fine and the next...well the next day, the next moment, can be life changing. Let's talk about writing first. What are you working on now? Are you excited about it? Are you working on more than one project? I have two fiction manuscripts… Continue reading This thing called life
Can writers force inspiration?
Back in 2019, I wrote a post called Can We Force Inspiration? I was preparing for NaNoWriMo and I was empty. I wondered if pictures, stories or anything would help. Was it possible to actually force inspiration? Writers are clever and creative. Why wouldn't it be possible to study an image on Pinterest or look at… Continue reading Can writers force inspiration?
Almost Fifty
Is this really it? Is this what life is like now for me who's less than a month from turning fifty years old? Fifty years old! And all I can think is--how the hell did that happen? Wasn't it just 1981 and my family moved to rural Beltsville? The library was an old trailer down… Continue reading Almost Fifty
Location, Location, Nope
When I was a kid, I longed for something different, something more than my suburban Maryland neighborhood gave me. I wanted to be at the beach in Ocean City, or in the desert in Tucson. I loved traveling because that meant I didn't have to be in the same boring places all the time--my house,… Continue reading Location, Location, Nope
Happy Place
Where is your happy place? Most likely, your answer depends on how old you are and where you are in your life right now. Our happy places change as we change. Or maybe not. It would be fascinating to find out. Anyway, recently I was thinking about a place that was special to me more… Continue reading Happy Place
The Second Chance Writer 