Life as I know it, Self-publishing, Writing Journey

I’m not Joan Wilder

  Have I made a mistake with my writing? Should I have paid more attention to what readers want? Should I have followed a formula and used tropes?  I'm not a genre-specific author. The one genre I loved when I was younger was romance. I read novels in other genres, but wanted to be a… Continue reading I’m not Joan Wilder

Writing Journey

It’s NaNoWriMo time!

It's that time of the year! It's NaNoWriMo time! For those who have no idea what I'm talking about, NaNoWriMo stands for National Novel Writing Month. Anyone can sign up for this challenge to write 50,000 words during the month of November. I've completed seven projects since 2012 and I've signed up again this year.… Continue reading It’s NaNoWriMo time!

Life as I know it, Novels, Writing Journey

My most memorable NaNoWriMo

I've participated in NaNoWriMo seven times. I reached the 50K goal every time, but it wasn't easy. Each time was stressful and hard. But I know who I am, and I know that as soon as I sign up for this personal competition, there's no other choice for me but to succeed. I'd tear myself… Continue reading My most memorable NaNoWriMo

Life as I know it, Novels, Writing Journey

Where is your soul sleeping?

What's life without writing? Words create a mood, initiate feelings and sometimes lead to healing. I've been writing my entire life to feel something other than the turmoil, fear and pain that follows close to me nearly every day. Poetry, stories, novellas, articles and lately, memoir. I've always loved memoir and nonfiction, but over the… Continue reading Where is your soul sleeping?

Novels, Self-publishing, Writing Journey

Releasing your writing and yourself

On September 9,  I wrote this tweet: So I'm getting ready to hit the publish button on my second novella. And I'm frozen. What is wrong with me? I received a lot of reaction from this simple and honest tweet. Writer friends understood and offered support and encouragement. Some told me it was a natural… Continue reading Releasing your writing and yourself

Self-publishing, Writing Journey

My Summer Writing Life

  I've been avoiding this blank space for too long. But I haven't avoided all writing--and editing, revision, researching and reading. No, just this site. My personal site. Why? Why do writers sometimes avoid a project they usually enjoy and know they should continue? And when a lot of time passes, it becomes both easier… Continue reading My Summer Writing Life

INFJ, HSP, Life as I know it

I’m worst at what I do best

  Have you ever been so overjoyed because you finally discovered who you are and why you do the things you do? Have you ever nearly cried with relief because you found other people who think like you and make decisions like you? Have you ever wanted to shout to the world that you aren't… Continue reading I’m worst at what I do best

INFJ, HSP, Life as I know it, Writing Journey

Structured Writing Sucks (for me)

      In recent months, I've been doing a lot of work on myself. I've been stuck in a terrible procrastination loop for too many months, and I've been crushed with anxiety, depression and fear. I just couldn't finish the editing of my latest novel and I hated myself. I was so close but… Continue reading Structured Writing Sucks (for me)

INFJ, HSP, Life as I know it, Writing Journey

A short intro to something bigger

  This is strange. I'm sitting here with all kinds of thoughts and feelings running through my mind and body. I'm on overload. I want to talk and write about them all. But I always get ahead of myself and then become confused and frustrated, and eventually I'll shut down and end up doing nothing.… Continue reading A short intro to something bigger